I don’t know.
No, I’m sorry. I was talking to someone and mentioning my blog post How to Repel Men and so then she asks, “ok, well how do you attract men?” And so I laughed and admitted defeat.
Historically if I was attracted to a guy there was a series of things I would do. None of these things was a potential way to attract this person, it was a list of things I would do to try and ensure that this guy never found out I was interested in him. I’m not sure if that sounds crazy or not. In my head it makes perfect sense.
I didn’t want to be in the vulnerable position of being interested in a guy in anything more of the “you are attractive, anyone can see that, doesn’t mean I care” vibe going. And there are genuine instances of that. I might know someone who is really good looking, but I don’t care because they might not be my type or I’ve gotten to know them and all attraction is gone. But yes, sometimes I might have some big crush on a guy and while most people might be wondering how to get their attention I was busy making sure they didn’t know I existed.
So let me go through the steps here.